1. The nature of happiness
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt;"><font face="宋体, MS Song">1. The nature of happiness<p></p></font></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><font face="宋体, MS Song"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;">You may think people in such a glamorous [</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Kingsoft Phonetic Plain';">5^lAmErEs</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;">], fun-filled place are happier than others. If so, you have some mistaken ideas about the nature of happiness.<p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 42pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 3.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><font face="宋体, MS Song"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;">Many intelligent [</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Kingsoft Phonetic Plain';">in5telidVEnt</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;">]people still equate happiness have little or nothing in common. Fun is what we experience during an act. Happiness is what we experience after an act. <span style="COLOR: red;">It is a deeper, more abiding[</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 'Kingsoft Phonetic Plain';">E5baidiN</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: red;">]emotion.<p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: red;"><font face="宋体, MS Song">Going to an amusement park or ball game, watching a movie or television, are fun activities that help us relax, temporarily forget our problems and maybe even laugh. But they so not bring happiness, because their positive effects end when the fun ends.<p></p></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="宋体, MS Song">I have often thought that if <place wst="on">Hollywood</place> stars have a role to play, it is to teach us that happiness has nothing to do with fun. These rich, beautiful individuals have constant access to glamorous parties, fancy cars, and expensive homes, everything that spells “happiness”. But in memoir after memoir, celebrities reveal the unhappiness hidden beneath all their fun: depression, alcoholism, drug addiction, broken marriages, troubled children, and profound loneliness.<p></p></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="宋体, MS Song">The way people cling to the belief that a fun-filled, pain-free life equates happiness actually diminishes their chances of ever attaining real happiness. If fun and pleasure are equated with happiness, then pain must be equated with unhappiness. But, in fact, the opposite is true: more times than not, things that lead to happiness involve some pain.<p></p></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><font face="宋体, MS Song">As a result, many people avoid the very endeavors that are the source of true happiness. They fear the pain inevitably brought by such things as marriage, raising children, professional achievement, religious commitment, civic or charitable work, and self-improvement.<p></p></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 23pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></p></span></p> <font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">古龙妙语</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">(1)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> 女人</span><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> ▲当一个女孩子说要气死你的时候，她的意思往往就是表示她很喜欢你。</span><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> ▲不吃饭的女人这世上也许还有好几个，不吃醋的女人却连一个也没有。</span><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> ▲无论一个人是天生机敏还是天生勇敢，都不如天生幸运的女子。</span><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> ▲女子看到自己喜欢的东西时，就看不到危险了。</span><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> ▲女孩子说没有想什么的时候，心里一定有心事。</span><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> 男人</span><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> ▲一个男人若将一个女人当做朋友，往往就会忘记她是个女人了。</span><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> ▲男人就像孩子，你要他听话，多少也得给他点甜头吃吃。</span><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><font size="2"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> ▲也许每一个能讨女人欢心的少年，都难免有点睡眠不足的。</span><font face="宋体, MS Song"> </font></font><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-text-animation: none;"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="2"> </font></p></span></p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"><font size="2"> ▲要知道，聪明的男人总是会选个很适当的时候来装装傻的</font></span> good article
页:
[1]