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sdccumcm 2011-11-14 11:23
As an unavoidable current, the aged tendency of population is extending gradually in China nowadays. So as a result, several problems have been exposed. For instance, the insurance of medical treatment encouters a great difficulty because of the growing number of elderly people; also, the lack of labour force, which is hard for the government to handle, has become one of the most troublesome matter. But we cannot ignore another serious trouble: the lost responsibility of taking care of our parents and grandparents. And that is, somehow, an issue for most of us to think deeply. Well, it comes to a question that, as everybody today cares, who should take this responsibility? That equals to who will take care of our elerly people. Someone says it should be the government, for governments have adequate money and personnel to offer goods and materials; some others say gerocomium. But what always make me confused is: do we feel too tired to give care to our parents and grandparents? I think it differently that this responsibility belongs to us, as their children and their children's children. If we ourselves are not appropriate for this job, I would never believe anyone better. How can we be so indifferent? As more and more young people nowadays prefer to live alone with their honeys, more and more so called "empty nest elderly" appear. I was born in a middle class family with my parents and three grandparents. Three years ago one of my grandmother passed away at her age of 71, a certain extent because of my uncle and aunt's lack of care. From the past when I was young to the present, my parents have showed great examples for caring my grandparents. However busy they are, they are bound to take some time to accompany my grandpa and grandma as well as having a whole-family meal once a week together. At first I didn't understand my parents' behaviour, for I thought these things took much of their spare time, at which they might rather have a holiday. But gradually I got the point--what is the real happiness in our family? Of course it is to be with our parents and grandparents. To be responsible for our elderly peop we are not just to take a responsibility simply, but to show our appreciation and repay our parents and grandparents. Anyway, it is our elderly people that brought us up in the difficult period. Meanwhile I want to say that elderly people also need to be active to the youngs, instead of being too reserved. My grandmother is a good example. She alway says she do not want my father to see her, but we all know what she think truly, as many other elderly people do. So, I hope all the grandparents can show more desire and try more to communicate we their children and their grandchildren. Through this, the relationship between the two or three generations may be better, and, at the same time, reduce misunderstandings. In conclusion, it is we that should truly take the responsibility of taking care of our elderly people. Please do not search for any excuse, just keep your heart warm and pick up your spare time to be with your parents and grandparents--if you want your children to treat you so.
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